One of the questions I hear the most from women entering my community is:
"Where do I even begin on my spiritual journey?"
And I get it.
In a world full of information (and misinformation), choosing a spiritual path that feels authentic can feel overwhelming. You’re looking for clarity, connection, and confidence—but you don’t want to get lost trying to follow someone else’s blueprint.
Here’s the truth I’ve learned from over two decades of walking my own path and guiding others:
Your spiritual journey is as unique as your fingerprint.
While many of us face similar twists and turns, no one’s journey will ever be exactly like yours. That’s the beauty of it—it’s deeply personal and divinely designed. That said, there are foundational practices that can help you align, protect your energy, and stay grounded as you evolve. Let’s get into them.
1. Master the Mind: Be Intentional With Your Thoughts and Words
If you want to shift your life, you must first shift your mindset.
One of the most powerful spiritual tools you have isn’t a candle, herb, or ritual—it’s your thoughts.
The words you speak, the stories you tell yourself, and the energy behind them are in direct communication with the Divine, your ancestors, and any spirits or energies working with—or against—you. Every thought is a seed. Every word is a spell. What are you planting?
When you become intentional about your inner dialogue, you start rewiring how you experience the world. It’s not about toxic positivity—it’s about spiritual sovereignty.
Your thoughts are the cause. Your emotions are the effect.
When you're unconscious in your thinking, your emotions run wild. But when you choose to be mentally present, you reclaim the power to direct your own experience.
2. Clear Your Space to Clear Your Spirit
Your environment is an energetic mirror.
If your space is chaotic, cluttered, or misaligned with who you're becoming, it will challenge your spiritual growth.
Start small, but start somewhere:
- Declutter and deep clean your home or sacred area
- Let go of objects that carry heavy or unhelpful energy
- Be mindful of who you allow into your energetic field
- Create a sacred space for your spiritual practice—even if it’s just a corner or small altar
If you're in a living situation that doesn’t allow for major physical changes, shift your atmosphere by changing your location:
Take a walk in nature. Sit by water. Ground yourself at the park.
The goal is to reset your nervous system and realign your spirit so you can come back to center, even if your environment feels limiting.
And if none of that is possible in the moment? Focus inward. Build your mental resilience and energetic protection until you’re strong enough to make external changes.
3. Take Radical Accountability for Your Life
This one can feel like a punch to the ego, but it’s also the most liberating thing you’ll ever do.
Accountability is not about blame. It’s about ownership.
When you take full responsibility for every situation you’re in—whether it’s painful or beautiful—you move from victimhood to empowerment. You stop outsourcing your power. You begin to see how your choices, beliefs, and patterns have shaped your life... and how you can consciously shift them.
Accountability invites healing, not shame.
It invites growth, not guilt.
And it’s one of the strongest spiritual muscles you can build.
Final Thoughts: You’re Already on the Path
If you’re asking “How do I begin my spiritual journey?”, you already have.
The question itself is a call from your soul—and you answered it.
There’s no one-size-fits-all process, no spiritual checklist to complete. What matters most is that you start consciously and continue courageously.
Focus on your thoughts.
Cleanse your space.
Take accountability.
And watch how your path unfolds.
If this resonated with you, you're not alone—and you don't have to walk this journey alone.
Join the Irregular Spirits community where women like you are healing, evolving, and reclaiming their power, one sacred step at a time.
🌀 Let your spirit lead.
You are the command.